Scripture: John 3:29 (ESV) – “The one who has the bride is the bridegroom. The friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly at the bridegroom’s voice. Therefore this joy of mine is now complete.”
John the Baptist continues to explain his role in relation to Jesus by using the imagery of a wedding. Jesus is the bridegroom, and His people are the bride. John identifies himself not as the groom, but as the friend of the groom—the one who assists in preparing the way and rejoices in the groom’s joy. John’s mission was never about himself; his greatest joy was seeing Jesus take center stage.
The document emphasizes the significance of this analogy. In Jewish tradition, the “friend of the bridegroom” (similar to a modern-day best man) had an important role in facilitating the wedding and ensuring everything was prepared for the groom and his bride. However, once the wedding was complete, his role faded into the background. John expresses that his work is done—he has faithfully pointed people to Christ, and now that Jesus is being exalted, his joy is complete.
J.C. Ryle, in his Expository Thoughts on the Gospels, highlights John’s humility and selflessness. He notes that John does not respond with envy or regret but with great joy. Ryle warns that too often, people struggle with letting go of influence or stepping aside when their work is finished. However, John’s attitude is a model for all believers: true joy is found in seeing Christ glorified, not in seeking personal recognition.
For us, this verse challenges us to examine where our true joy lies. Are we content in playing a supporting role if it means Jesus is magnified? Do we find joy in pointing others to Christ, or do we seek attention for ourselves? Like John, we must learn to rejoice in the success of Christ’s kingdom, even if it means stepping aside.
Reflection Questions:
- How does John’s attitude challenge your understanding of joy in serving Christ?
- Are there areas in your life where you struggle to rejoice when someone else receives more attention than you?
- How can you better embrace the role of pointing others to Christ, finding joy in seeing Him exalted?
Prayer:
Lord Jesus, thank You for teaching us through John’s example that true joy is found in seeing You exalted. Help us to serve with humility, rejoicing in Your glory rather than seeking our own. Teach us to be faithful in whatever role You have given us and to embrace the joy of seeing others drawn to You. May our greatest delight always be in Your presence and Your work. In Your name, Amen.
This devotional is based on Pastor Chris Cousine’s sermon material and supplemented with insights from J.C. Ryle’s Expository Thoughts on the Gospels on John 3:29.
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